3 Things About Your Relationship That You Should Keep Between The Two Of You.

Love and Dating

Yes, it is sometimes helpful and cathartic to talk to your friends and family about your relationship, and your partner. But, you might want to resist the temptation, especially if you’re in a committed relationship, and your partner has met the people in your life. It’s okay to talk about the exotic dishes you ate at the last vacation you took together, or your jarringly different opinions about the last movie you saw together. But, there are certain things that are best kept between the two of you.

1.Money matters

Unless you are taking business advice from someone, keep your financial matters to yourself. Nobody needs to know how much your partner makes, or whether or not you two have a joint bank account, or how much you two spend on each other. It is nobody’s business.

2.Your sex life

As much as you’d like to brag, or complain, about the size of your man’s dong, nobody wants to know! And chances are, he wouldn’t want the world to know either, especially if he isn’t all that blessed. The same goes for his technique, your favourite position, and how you might love to have sex on your kitchen counter. It’s all fine to discuss in detail the one night stands that you had, but talking about your sex life with someone that the audience knows, is T.M.I.!

2.The ‘other woman / man’

The only time it might be okay to vent to your friends about your woes, is when the other woman or man becomes the reason for you two breaking up. If you are trying to work things out (and yes, you can save your relationship after one of you have cheated. Read more about it on our website, Realtionship), keep things private. You don’t want your loved ones’ opinion of your partner to change, because of one rough patch.