1. You can crush on ~anyone~, ~any time~, ~anywhere~. This is a beautiful thing. Cutie in math class? On it. That guy sitting in your row at the movie theater? Yep. That girl you stumbled across on the roadside.
2. You have time to do a million things. Like going to swim practice,getting time to learn,going out with friends at anytime . If you were in a relationship and spending all your free time with bae, you might not have time for all the awesome-sauce that's currently in your life.
3. You're learning exactly who you are. Figuring out who you are is hard enough without the added pressure of focusing on how to be a girlfriend, too. When you're single, you don't have to worry if you're into fantasy football because your partner likes it, or if you *actually* like it because you're good at it.
4. You wil make time with your friends. Not saying that girls in relationships can't have amazing friendships too, but when you're single, your girl squad is everything. You don't have to worry about splitting your time, or if your friends and S.O. get along, so your bond with your besties is stronger than ever.
5. You're saving a ton of money. When you're dating someone, you're constantly dropping 50cedis on pizza, or 100cedis on killer concert VIP tickets for their birthday. And then there's all the money you're spending on gas to drive back and forth between your houses all the time.
6. No one gets jealous when you stare at Austin's dreamy green eyes for, like, 10,000 hours. Or write fan fic about Austin sweeping you off your feet and spending his entire year off from One Direction traveling the world together. Or when you snap pics of you and Austin with hearts and "Mrs. Austin Styles" drawn all over them.
7. You can pick the best college for you without worrying about what it means for your relationship. There's no stressing over whether you're applying to the same schools, or if you want to try a long-distance relationship. The #1 priority? YOU. Where do YOU want to go to school? What do YOU want to do with your life? What makes sense for YOU?
8. You can learn from your friends' relationships. It can totally suck when you're the only single one in friend group, but think of it this way: You get to learn from all their drama so you don't make the same mistakes when you start dating someone. Constantly telling your friend who was dating a guy who didn't want to acknowledge her in the halls at school that she could do sooooo much better, drilled into you that you never want to be with someone who isn't excited to be with you. And being the sounding board every time your bff and her bae get in a fight will help you avoid getting into the same fights in your next relationship.
9 You have an awesome relationship with your parents. Parents tend to have a hard time accepting their "little girl" is grown up enough to date, which usually leads to a lot of fights, tears, and slamming doors. You don't have to worry about your Dad forbidding you to see bae after he catches you sneaking out to see him, or fighting with Mom over whether you can invite your bff over for Thanksgiving. For now, things are smooth between you and the parental units... well, mostly.
10. You don't have to worry about your siblings embarrassing. Because yes, they'll def flip when they find out you're dating someone. They'll either get majorly overprotective, or they'll try to embarrass you every chance they get.
11. There's no pressure to come up with a genius proposal. You'll just go with your friends, because they are ~the best~.
11. When someone special comes along, you'll know it's right. The best part of being single? You're not wasting your time on someone who isn't worthwhile. Time spent as a single lady = time to become the truest, most youest version of you. And when you do meet someone who deserves you, you'll feel sparkles and butterflies and fireworks, and they'll feel them, too. <3
TO BE CONTINUED ....
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